Don’t believe him when he says ‘I like you’ coz he goes around saying that to everyone, he doesn’t really mean it;

Don’t believe him when he says ‘You’re the best thing that has ever happened to me’ coz his definition of best will change and better things will happen to him;

Don’t believe him when he says ‘You’re beautiful’ coz he will make you feel very ugly when he leaves;

Don’t believe him when he says ‘You’re funny’ coz he will suck the humor out of your life;

Don’t believe him when he says ‘I’ll always be by your side’ coz he will leave your side when you most need it;

Don’t believe him when he says ‘I’m worried about you’ coz one day he’ll be the sole reason for all your worries and that’s when he’ll turn his back on you;

Don’t believe him when he says ‘take care of your health’ coz one day you’ll be very sick and he wouldn’t care one bit;

Don’t believe him when he says ‘I can’t see you cry’ because he will make you cry like no one else has like no one else can;

But most of all don’t believe him when he says ‘I love you’ because he doesn’t. Never did, Never will.

Manisha Singh

I'm an HR (IT) Consultant by profession who loves traveling to keep from getting caught up in the monotony of regular life. I quit my job in Oct 2016 to take a career break. I'm using my time to travel around South America. When not traveling I love spending time volunteering for various activities ranging from Art to corporate citizenship. I love Running (5k mostly), reading (interest keeps varying here), playing TT (something I picked up recently), and open to just about any new experience.


Avneesh Saxena · January 3, 2018 at 16:42

Emotions is what makes us alive. They may be positive or negative. But if one stops feeling them….u r a dead man…

    Manisha Singh · January 5, 2018 at 14:39

    I completely agree with you here. The only way to protect yourself from emotional turmoil is to not feel things but then are you really living your life then.

angie2787 · March 2, 2017 at 03:55

Just one question.. How do u manage the finances ,required for travelling

    Manisha Singh · March 2, 2017 at 04:23

    I saved aggressively for an entire year to be able to travel full time for a couple of months. By aggressively I mean I did really live frugally. I’ll write about that entire experience as well.

A subscriber of your blog · February 18, 2017 at 06:31



I felt that posts I mentioned above are worthwhile. I suggest you to read.

    Manisha Singh · February 18, 2017 at 21:14

    Thank you for sharing this! They are both wonderful articles.
    Fortunately or unfortunately my life does not revolve around Love or finding love anymore. I found my peace on the road, away from everyone and everything.

Lavanya · October 1, 2016 at 16:53

I could totally connect with this in my current situation. 🙂 How did you recover?

    Manisha Singh · October 2, 2016 at 18:02

    I wish I could say some inspiring words to help you but you know that I can’t, nobody can.
    I’m not sure if this is called ‘recovery’ but I’ve found things for myself where I would like to focus my energy on like my next big trip. It certainly helps to use your skills and time for constructive things.
    Please feel free to write to me on thesolespeaks@gmail.com for anything (even if it’s just to vent out).

Rahul ..naam suna Hi hoga · July 21, 2016 at 10:41

Hmm random things happen ..u find a guy ..feel gud about his presence n it doesn’t work …it feels the whole world has broken down upon u …but girl this isn’t the end …. What had to happen has happened …now move on… More u fret on it …more it’s gonna hurt … But remember one day out of all the jerks u meet …u’ll find ur guy …u will …but till then let ur heart be broken …let ur self fall in love again n again …u don’t have to forget what the feeling is .. Chal bahut ho gaya …coffee break le

    Manisha Singh · July 21, 2016 at 14:10

    The love guru has spoken!
    Thank you so much for reading and responding. Means a lot!
    I’ll keep your advise in mind 🙂
    And yes, I fell in love with a wonderful man and I don’t regret any part of being with him.

Virat singh · June 27, 2016 at 16:56

As a boy , i am not satisfied coz i love someone & shi believe me all about i talk . but i liked your blog.
Keep writing . thankx

    Manisha Singh · June 28, 2016 at 17:35

    Thank you!
    These are random musings of my mind only to portray how cynical love makes you.
    It’s great that you’ve someone who believes you. Hope you appreciate that!

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